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“I have no friends” and why it’s okay

Via Li

1.9M Views . 2023-07-28

welcome back loves! anyways so for this week’s video I talked about why having no friends is completely ok! as you can also see, I didn’t label this video as a “journal entry episode” even though it is one. From now on, I won’t be labeling my journal entries as “journal entries.” The numbering of the episodes started to overwhelm me so I’m planning on just having the topic stand alone. I’m aware in the video, I stated it to be episode 8, but from here on, I won’t be labeling themmm. i hope you guys are all okay with that T^T I will still be making journal entries just without the labeling lol. anyways. in this video, I really want to remind those of you who feel alone that is a normal feeling and a lot of people feel that. I don’t think this topic is talked about enough these days such as feeling lonely. I think feeling lonely in your 20s is very common tbh. It makes you feel outcasted in a way compared to others. I want to remind you with this video that you are not any less worthy because of it. your people will come, but as of now, go live your best life. anywayssssssss, I hope you guys enjoyed this video! feel free to let me know what you guys think! I will see you all very very soon! i love you all! bye byeeee ✩ MY SOCIALS ✩ business email: viaa.ilyou@gmail.com instagram: via.ilyou https://instagram.com/via.ilyou TikTok: via..li https://www.tiktok.com/@via..li depop: viailyou https://depop.com/viailyou background music: Music by ninjoi. - Acceptance - https://thmatc.co/?l=176F811F tags: #nofriends #alone #feelinglonely subcount: 180K

The speaker discusses their experience of being envious of people with lots of friends and how it made them insecure. They also share how being alone has helped them discover their true self and learn to enjoy doing things on their own.

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  • The speaker feels that being alone can lead to self-discovery, allowing individuals to figure out things about themselves that they wouldn't in a group setting.
  • The speaker emphasizes that it's completely normal to feel lonely and that it's okay to not have a lot of friends.

Insights from the YouTube Video Text:

1. The Paradox of Loneliness: Why Being Alone Can Lead to Self-Discovery

This text delves into a fascinating paradox: while we often associate loneliness with negative feelings, it can actually be a catalyst for self-discovery. The speaker argues that being alone forces you to engage in activities you truly enjoy, rather than simply conforming to the desires of your friends. This leads to a deeper understanding of your own preferences and interests, a process that might not happen when surrounded by others.

2. The Illusion of Belonging: How Groups Can Foster Loneliness

The video challenges the idea that being in a group automatically equates to belonging.

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