The speaker addresses the common question of how to love someone without attachment. They define love as wanting someone to be happy, even if that doesn't include you, while attachment is focused on the other person making you happy. Attachment is seen as a form of selfishness that can lead to restrictions and ultimately, losing the person.

• The speaker addresses a common question: how to love someone without getting attached. They explain the difference between love and attachment, highlighting that love focuses on the other person's happiness, while attachment prioritizes one's own happiness.
• Attachment is described as holding on tightly to a person, wanting them to be with you forever, and potentially trying to control their actions. This can be a form of selfishness and is likely to lead to the loss of the relationship.